Close the Door

I've always liked the saying "one thing about your past is that its over". I think this is a very wise and insightful point of view. There are times when we don't have the opportunity for true closure. In a "perfect world" closure would always be an option, but in reality we can't let holding on to our pasts hinder our future. There comes a time when we must make the decision to just close the door on a situation. Release the power this "thing" has over you by closing the door on that troubled space and truly leaving it behind.

What might surprise you is that after leaving that dead weight behind, you have no desire to look back, even when the opportunity to get the closure you once desired arises. You might find that you have allowed yourself to grow so much, it's no longer worth your time.